Over-bonding is common in households with littermates or multiple dogs. Since dogs are naturally pack animals, they can easily form their own little “mini-pack” if not properly guided. When this happens, they may begin to rely on each other for direction instead of looking to you as their leader.

If you’re not setting clear leader-follower boundaries, your dogs may treat you as just part of the background—rather than their guide.

Over-Bonding with Humans

Over-bonding doesn’t just happen between dogs. It can also occur in the human-dog relationship, often leading to separation anxiety. If your dog becomes panicked or distressed when you leave, it’s important to address the issue early—separation anxiety can become difficult to manage over time.

Tips to Reduce Over-Bonding Between Dogs

To build a stronger bond with each dog individually and avoid over-dependence between them, try these steps:

• Enroll them in separate obedience classes – This strengthens individual focus and communication with you.

• Walk them separately – It builds one-on-one trust and leadership.

• Feed them separately – Helps prevent competition and encourages independence.

• Crate them separately – Promotes calm, alone time and reduces attachment to each other.

• Let them out one at a time – Especially helpful if they don’t respond to recall commands.

By giving each dog individual time and attention, you’ll encourage them to focus on you as their leader. The stronger your individual bond with each pet, the more they will listen, trust, and respect you.